It is hard to digest the fact that you were dumped, so you want to get your ex boyfriend back come what may. Overwhelmed by emotions, you might not even realize that you are doing something that will only have an opposite effect on him. In other words, you yourself might be pushing him further away from you!

If you really want to get your ex boyfriend back, first of all make sure you avoid these common post break-up mistakes:

1. Being too clingy.
This might be one of the reasons why he dumped you in the first place. No guy would like a girl who is too possessive. So, chasing him after the break-up and appearing desperate and needy will only turn him off more. Besides, no matter what guys might be saying, they still appreciate subtlety in women.

2. Calling or messaging him all the time.
It is no better than popping up in front of him at every opportunity. Do not try and fabricate false pretexts to talk to him - your desperation will anyway be obvious and make him think you have lost self-respect completely.

3. Telling all your friends how much you want to get your ex boyfriend back.
Telling everyone around how much you need your ex back in a secret hope that a common friend of yours will convey that to him is not a good idea. Neither is to ask somebody to chase him on your behalf. Again, you will achieve nothing but lower your self-esteem in his eyes.

4. Indulging in self-pitying.
Thinking you are an innocent victim and blaming your ex for whatever happened is first of all a lie to yourself. There is your share of responsibility for this break-up and the sooner you realize it the sooner you will be able to get your ex boyfriend back. Besides, self-pitying will only aggravate your depression - and you know that a depressed person rarely look attractive.

5. Neglecting yourself.
No matter how hurt and depressed you might feel, always remember that you are a woman - an attractive woman. Neglecting yourself and pigging out at all unhealthy foods will only make you feel more depressed at the end. On the contrary, hitting gym and beauty parlors is a great stress buster. Needless to say, you must look dashing and better than ever before if you want to get your ex boyfriend back - and keep him, too!

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